Romantic Siquijor: Your Couples & Honeymoon Guide

Siquijor offers something increasingly rare in Southeast Asian beach destinations: genuine peace. No party crowds, no jet skis, no hawkers following you down the beach. Just turquoise water, swaying palms, and the kind of quiet that lets you hear each other breathe.

For couples seeking romance without the price tag of the Maldives or the crowds of Bali, this small Philippine island delivers.

Why Siquijor for Romance

The Quiet Factor

Unlike Boracay’s party scene or Palawan’s growing popularity, Siquijor remains genuinely peaceful. You can walk beaches without interruption, dine without loud music, and find private corners easily.

The Intimacy

The island’s small scale creates natural intimacy. Everything is close, exploration is easy together, and the slow pace invites connection.

The Value

A week of romance in Siquijor costs a fraction of comparable experiences elsewhere. Honeymoon-level accommodation runs ₱3,000-10,000/night—not per-villa rates, but genuinely lovely options.

The Authenticity

This isn’t a manufactured resort island. You’ll encounter real Filipino culture, genuine hospitality, and experiences that create memories beyond “we lay on a beach.”

Romantic Accommodation

Luxury Options

Best for: Couples wanting reliable luxury with full services Romance features: Private balconies, couples spa treatments, beachfront dining Price: ₱5,000-10,000/night

Boutique Intimate

Best for: Couples preferring boutique experience over large resort Romance features: Quiet setting, personalized service, privacy Price: ₱3,000-5,000/night

Clifftop Views

Best for: Couples who love views and photography Romance features: Incredible sunset views, pool overlooking bay Price: ₱3,500-6,000/night

Romantic Experiences

Sunset Rituals

Sunset is sacred time for couples in Siquijor. Options:

Paliton Beach Swing: Take turns pushing each other on the famous rope swing as the sun drops. Cliché but genuinely magical.

Private Beach Dinner: Several resorts arrange candlelit dinners on the beach. Expect ₱2,500-5,000 for the experience.

Hilltop Viewpoints: Infinity Heights or similar elevated spots offer sunset cocktails with bay panoramas.

Sunset Paddleboarding: Rent SUPs and float together as colors paint the sky.

Water Activities Together

Snorkeling at Tubod: Easy, accessible, beautiful. Point at fish together. Simple pleasures.

Diving Together: If both are certified, Siquijor offers intimate dives with few other divers. Night dives for adventurous couples.

Waterfall Swimming: Cambugahay Falls’ turquoise pools are perfect for floating together (visit early to avoid crowds).

Land Exploration

Motorcycle Loop Together: Nothing bonds like a day exploring an island together by bike. Rider and passenger share the experience.

Sunrise Hike: Early morning walk to a viewpoint. Bring breakfast. Watch the island wake up.

Traditional Healer Visit: Unique and memorable. Experience something unusual together.

Relaxation

Couples Massage: Available at most resorts and some independent spas. ₱1,500-3,000 for both.

Quiet Beach Time: Find your spot. Bring books. Just be.

Pool Days: Several resorts have pools perfect for lazy afternoons together.

A Romantic Itinerary: 5 Days

Day 1: Arrival & Settling In

• Arrive via ferry from Dumaguete
• Transfer to resort
• Leisurely lunch
• Beach exploration
• Sunset cocktails
• Romantic dinner at resort

Day 2: Water Day

• Morning snorkeling at marine sanctuary
• Lunch at beach restaurant
• Afternoon at Cambugahay Falls
• Return for sunset
• Evening at leisure

Day 3: Adventure Together

• Full day motorcycle tour
• Visit Lazi Church and Convent
• Lunch in a village
• Stop at viewpoints
• Cave visit if interested
• Sunset at Paliton Beach

Day 4: Indulgence

• Sleep in
• Late breakfast
• Couples massage
• Pool afternoon
• Private beach dinner (arrange ahead)

Day 5: Departure Day

• Sunrise beach walk
• Leisurely breakfast
• Morning swim
• Check out and ferry

Romantic Dining

Resort Restaurants

Most upscale dining is at resorts. Options:

• Coco Grove: Best sunset setting, international menu
• Infinity Heights: View dining, good cocktails
• Beach resort restaurants: Casual but charming

Private Dining Experiences

Ask your resort about:

• Beach dinner setup (₱2,500-5,000 for two)
• In-room dining with romantic setup
• Picnic preparation for beach or waterfall

Local Experiences

For authentic shared experiences:

• Market breakfast together
• Local seafood restaurants
• Fresh fruit and snacks from roadside vendors

Practical Romance Tips

What to Bring

Essential:

• Something nice for dinner (not formal, but not just swimwear)
• Camera for sunset photos
• Meaningful items (cards, small gifts to surprise each other)

From Dumaguete (limited on island):

• Champagne or wine if celebrating
• Special treats
• Quality chocolate

Photography

Capture your trip:

• Sunset photos at Paliton
• Waterfall selfies (bring waterproof case)
• Morning coffee moments
• Candid exploration shots

Consider bringing a tripod for couple shots without asking strangers.

Avoiding Crowds

For maximum romance:

• Visit attractions early morning
• Skip weekends at popular spots
• Choose off-peak months (June, September, November)
• Stay at smaller properties

Weather Considerations

Best months: December-May (dry season) Workable: June, November (transition months) Challenging: July-October (rains possible)

A rainy afternoon together isn’t failure—it’s an excuse for spa time or room service.

Honeymoon Specifics

Before You Arrive

• Inform resort of honeymoon status
• Pre-book special experiences (beach dinner, massage)
• Arrange airport/ferry transfers
• Confirm any celebratory items

Honeymoon Packages

Some resorts offer packages including:

• Airport transfers
• Room upgrades (when available)
• Welcome champagne or flowers
• Couples massage
• Special dinner

Ask about current honeymoon offerings when booking.

Managing Expectations

Siquijor is not:

• Maldives-level luxury
• Overwater bungalows
• Butler service everywhere

Siquijor is:

• Authentic and genuine
• Peaceful and romantic
• Affordable for what you get
• Memorable in unique ways

Budget Planning

Budget Honeymoon (₱8,000-12,000/day for two):

• Mid-range resort
• Local restaurants
• Self-guided activities

Comfortable Honeymoon (₱15,000-20,000/day for two):

• Upscale resort
• Some special experiences
• Private tours

Splurge Honeymoon (₱25,000+/day for two):

• Best available resort
• Private dinners
• Full spa days
• Private guides

Beyond the Beach

Cultural Romance

• Visit churches together (Lazi’s colonial beauty)
• Explore the ancient Balete Tree
• Learn about traditional healing

Adventure Romance

• Cave exploration
• Cliff jumping together (if brave)
• Night diving for certified couples

Simple Moments

Often the most romantic:

• Morning coffee on balcony
• Reading together in hammocks
• Sunset walks without agenda
• Talking without distraction

A Romantic Evening

The sun drops toward Negros, painting clouds in impossible colors. You’re on Paliton Beach, toes in warm sand, cold drinks sweating in the tropical air.

No agenda. No reservation deadline. Just two people watching the sky transform, letting the day end without words.

Later, dinner at a simple beach restaurant. Grilled fish, cold beer, stars appearing above. The conversation meanders—plans, memories, dreams.

This is why couples come to Siquijor. Not for luxury beyond reach elsewhere. For permission to slow down, to remember why you chose each other, to exist in simple moments of extraordinary ordinariness.

The island asks little. It gives much.

For sunset planning, see our sunset locations guide. For wellness additions to your trip, check our yoga and retreat guide.